miss_c - you may find you're experiencing it all more this time around as you don't have the added distraction of wedding and family visits... BW is right - we do take turns at offering a shoulder to cry on, and then being the person crying on that shoulder when it's needed. that's what friends are for hun! we're all here for you when you need us...

as a little tip to how much this happens, BW and I have an almost unspoken commitment to not cycle together ever again cos both of us being insane at the same time is just really really bad!!

huge hugs for you hunny