I also have this thing in me that says "DH is so wonderful, shouldn't all the loving support he's providing me with be enough to get me through?" So I feel bad when I need other support, like the support of people here at BB...
Hun, i feel the same way - regularly - and it's not something i like! i think, for me, i realise that DH is loving and supportive - the girls on BB are understanding. No matter how much DH provides to me at home - he hasn't physically or emotionally gone through this journey from a FEMALE perspective, so he doesn't have that same understanding that my BB girls do! i often feel guilty about needing that extra understanding, but he reassures me that it's ok - and when i've read that someone is going through something similar, or has felt the same in the past, i feel much better that what i'm going through is normal - and the worry part of my brain turns of (or at least slows down) and i'm more open to that support DH is offering...

on the flip side of the coin - Slyder has helped me to understand things from DH's perspective as well, for which i'm eternally grateful - it's nice to read of what might be going on in his head - and reading Slyders posts, i've been able to broach conversation with DH about what he is thinking/feeling...

dont' feel guilty about getting your thoughts out on BB - it's so much better to not bottle it up hun!

BG