Hi Gargy

I know what you mean.... There have been 4 babies born in my family in the past 3 months.. As much as I love Christmas, I feel a little like I am spending the day doing what others want me to do.. I'm actually going away with DB on the 14th Dec and not returning till 7 Jan.. I just want to be away for Chrissie/New Year.. and by doing that no one is too offended, as I'm not around to attend any of their parties ! I feel bad, as I will miss my niece (3 months) first Christmas, but she wont remember it ! Mum was a bit upset about me going away.. but she will be fine..
Have you considered going away for a week or so at Christmas? There are some places that dont allow kids under 16, so you wont be stuck by the pool and surrounded by kids !
Anyway, its just a suggestion.. and also a nice time to spend with your DH to relax...
HTH

Kat