Gargy

The holidays can be such a happy but heartbreaking time for us all. Do what you feel is the right thing for you, if you think that being at all these functions is not going to be good for you emotionally, then you shouldnt go. And dont worry whether people get upset, it is your decision whether you go and they will just have to get over it if you dont attend. And some people will understand that this is not a particularly happy time for you and perhaps you should even explain this to your IL's. Look after your self and take care of your heart.

I hope ALL of you ladies have a very special xmas present this year

Lisa