David, thank you so much. I have just received my copy in the mail this arvo, and have read up until the end of the first 'toolbox'. So far, it is just amazing. It's like i'm looking into my hubby's mind and seeing what he is feeling. No doubt i'll have it finished withing the next few days, and then i'll pass it on to DH, and hope that he gets as much out of it as i have already. He's not much of a reader, so i won't force it upon him. I'll just let him know it's there, and let him make the decision as to whether he reads it or not...thanks again, and woo hoo on the speedy post...xxx