I'd love to add my support to SuzyQ that donor conception is a really tricky area to deal with. People just look at you blankly when you try to explain what is happening. And it is even harder to talk to men about it than women - I only talked to one male friend about it at work and he changed the subject so quickly it left my head spinning. I only talked to him because he asked specific questions. So any help in that area would be great.