Shan - thanks for buying the book. I'm glad it's proving to be useful for you.

I've actually been amazed at the numbers of women who've bought the book so they can understand their partner and work out how to involve him in the experience or start talking about issues.

And thanks to everyone for your feedback. I'll be writing another article in a few weeks' time and you've given me quite a few ideas. It seems trying to deal with other people dealing with what you're going through is a big issue, along with a few other things.