Em, I'm so glad that you are now looking forward and moving on and concentrating on your other bubba. For every child i have living i have had a m/c with one of them being twins and because they were fraternal they are classed as a separate m/c. That one happened when my babies were 16-17weeks gestation. I have also had 2 m/c while have my tubes done. Each and every m/c is sad and you grieve, but then you start to get on with life again, and thank god for the miracles that you already have. Gosh after re-reading that i hope i didn;t sound to harsh. I'm glad that you have a wonderful support group within your close family as they will be the best medicine to get you through all of this. Cheers Kiya