Tubal Reversals #12

[Phteven]

Here is a thread where you can chat with others about TTC after a tubal reversal... The old thread can be found here

[Mumof8]

OH MY GOD LUV thats awesome news. Mine were 92 aswell right on 4wks so sounds like good news. At 6weeks they were 743 and that was with twins which is pretty low. As long as its over 16 its a BFP some people just have lower levels then others. Thats really awesome MERRY CHRISTMAS (EARLY).
yEP NEARLY HALF WAY(Bloody caps lock) and cant wait for it to be over. I want to see the pinl bits hehe.
Take care lovely ladies have a good weekend XXXX
PS.....Woohoo Im first

[luvchildren]

em, i have to go back to the hospital on monday to continually check the levels- so hopefully next week if the levels are high enough, I will have another scan. Did you have to wait until 6 weeks to have another blood test?

[Mumof8]

NO i just went to the doctor every second day and said I wanted them checked.
They cant say no,just go to a different doctor if you have to.
I did them in the morning and had the results that arvo.

[maz]

hmm have made the final decision to get my tubes removed when I have my c/s this time round. I defently dont want any more babies...my body just cant take anymore and theob has advised for me to not have anymore aswell. Bit sad to think I wont be feeling all thenice things but relieved that I wont hurt any more. I told the ob I dont want my tubes clamped and she said with my history NO WAY!!!! she couldnt believe I fell pg 3 times with them done, well nor could we. Just feeling a bit happier knowing there will be no pill, no contraception no not having to worry about all that cr@p.

[onemore]

Hey luv,please dont be sorry its great news, Im preying it all turns out ok for you. I will admit I had a cry but you know what, I am so happy for you and I just hope I will soon be able to be in your shoes again.
Hearing all the stuff that the Dr`s do over there make me wonder about Tassie Dr`s and hospitals, I had no blood tests or even a urine test the whole time, I did have a scan at 6 weeks though.
Maz thats a huge decision but you gotta do whats right for you... scary to think your down to counting days now, wont be long and you`ll have a little girl in your arms.
Hope everyone else is doing well.
Will talk again soon....

[mrsjac]

hey everyone i've been busy! wow luv that is awesome news a big congrats to you and your family i hope that you have a healthy and happy pregnancy. i'm still trying of course i was told by my doctor that there's a 48hr window before during and after ovulation is when i should do it. maz not long to go now. i agree with onemore you gotta do it for you hey storm how's everything going with you? anyway i won't get back on now until i get the bfp and i hope that all of you have a safe and happy xmas and a very happy new year

[Mumof8]

Huge step Maz but its your body and you know it best.
I hap to many problems after my op so Im keeping my body just the way it is.
We to have decided there will be nomore after this one cause
its to hard to find houses big enough for all of us and cars too.
Not to mension my poor old body is getting a hammering from all these babies.
Rob has put his hand up and said he will get the snip.
So I think thats great that hes stepped up to the plate and doing his bit.

[maz]

Jed is getting the snip too guys..not just me. The ob said after all the tests we have had that we are both an extreme high fertile couple and that he was not surprised that I fell with my tubes done. Jed is going in mid year to get the snip. I fell pg 2 months after having Vy and I was BFing. I cant have another PG, ive already had 4 c/s (including the reversal) then this one...my body cant take it any more and im scared $hitless of another c/s, especially cause I have to have a general.
IM usless with the pill to..ive still got 2 packets sitting here from after I had Vy and i had the implanon injection and bleed like a stuck pig for 6 months...ahahhahaha
Im blessed with my kids, im lucky. Ive got a gf who has been told by her fertility specialist that she may need to look at an egg donor and it breaks my heart for her. I dont talk about getting my tubes done infront of her incase I hurt her feelings. i would consider donating my eggs to her though...but I'll let her make her own steps and wait and see if she asks.
have a great weekedn or whats left of it ladies

[Mumof8]

Gee how come your having the general Maz????

[luvchildren]

maz, I hope you don't mind, but please think hard about it. Even though you don't want anymore children, your fallopian tubes supply blood to your ovaries and they then in turn supply hormones to your body- so you hormones could play havoc. I didn't know any of this stuff before my ligation. it can also affect your b/feeding. In my experience drs won't care-they'll just tell you whatever. Just be really sure- your tubes serve other purposes too- not just for conception. Anyway I hope it all works for you. So sorry to go on but just really concerned for you...
em, I will be telling them at the hospital to give me a scan tommorrow- cause through bld tests they can't tell whether it is ectopic or not. Also I had a scan once with emily at 4 weeks and they picked up the heartbeat- so i will get them to do it tommorrow.
onemore, thanks for being supportive. its always a little disheartening. I hope you too will be bfp again.
dea, thanks for your support- i hope you fall soon too- I had given up- and it happened- still don't know if it's ectopic though i keep praying. anyway will jump on tommorrow to let everyone know how i go

[Mumof8]

Wow I didnt get a HB till 6wks 4days. Good luck for tomorrow

[luvchildren]

hey everyone, just letting you know- not so good news. the drs are hopeless. the original scan said maybe sac and today because i had a lot of gas in my stomach they said they didn't see this sac. the dr tried to tell me that it is just a blood clot or cyst- but i don't believe him. they also want to slice me open. I told them no and no and no. I was in heaps of pain last night but i think it's because of the gas. anyway they want to operate and told them what logical rational do they want to do this? they said there is a mass but they don't know if it is in the tube, behind the tube and ovary or beside. they don't really know anything and want to remove the tubes. anyway will keep in touch. going back on wednesday to have more bhcg

[Mumof8]

Wow Luv keep in touch and let us know whats going on.
Sometimes it can be real hard to see when there this little
if they dont try hard and have a real good look.

[kiya]

WOW!! Luv, that is so radical to say the least. I would be getting a second, third, fourth or/and even fifth opinion i needed. The one doing the scan is clearly mental and doesn't know the difference between a pimple or a mole. Keep up hope, and things will work out for you. Cheers Kiya

[maz]

OMg Luv honey - i hope to hell the docs are wrong! ive got everythign crossed for you that it is!
Em - I have a really bad back and the anethatist cant get the needle in were it has to go so hench general for me..i dont mind cause I recvoer really well and am up 2 hours after I have bub.

[luvchildren]

kiya, thanks so much for your support. don't worry i have made it perfectly clear that they just can't do whatever they want. i only trust one dr there. i will keep everyone up to date.
maz, thanks so much for your support- will keep you in touch

[Mumof8]

Oh Maz you poor darl. I would hate that.
Ops scare me at the best of time let alone
being fully put out. Aww and you miss seeing
Sunshine for the very first time.
I HOPE they don't do that to me. The doctor was
saying last hospital visit that they would hate being
the one that does my c/s so I said WHY.
They said cause this is the third c/s and cause of all the old scar
tissue. I guess i didnt think of that. They told me that they
WILL NOT BE DOING MY C/S TILL 39....WILL NOT.
Unless i have problems..Hehehe i was hoping for 37 38
cause Im so impatient. On well the 6th of may is better then the 13th