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Hi Ladies, how you all going. I'm hanging in there only just. I get my results tomorrow. I have had 2 previous abnormal paps and i have to have them done every 6mths because of that. So can't wait to be so normal again. Em, eww castor oil. I did that once with my 2nd son, and boy did i hurl everywhere. All it made me do was sit on the toilet and no contractions. cheers kiya
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Kiya...lol yeah i know ive done it twice before and boy did my bum hurt.
The only pains i got was poo pains!!I did buy some today but i ended up tipping wat i had made up down the sink,just couldnt bring myself to do it.
SIL had her baby today 5.4 weeks early but things are looking good. He was 5.3p or 2.44kgs and 48cms long so he a real good size considering.
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I've been in here a few times but things have been up and down at home that I didnt feel like talking/typing....
The Dh been acting weird and abusing me when I look at him saying aLL I do is nag him....
His behaviour is odd too....
(like if i fall asleep on the lounge he will leave me there, or when he comes home he does not speak to me unless it is to ask if dinner has been cooked)....
This morning I sent him a text telling him that enough was enough and that I wanted Us over...
he then rang me and abused me and told me to go back to my jerry springer soap opera.
"Jerk Off".
maybe he is ****ed as he knows I will get this baby and maybe he dont want it?
or maybe he is doing the nasty behind my back....
There was a time i would fight tooth and nail for this guy and now I am like I just give up, I have 5 kids and i cant handle his childish behaviour to Boot....
maybe it is not a baby I'm missing, maybe it's my life.....
why are men so complicated, did god create them this way so they could Pi## of the female's....
I have been with him for almost 15 years and I'm scared if i do walk out I'll never find another....
he can be naturally moody but this is GRRRRR....
It's like he has PMS with menopause.
anyway I hope you are all well and congrats to those who have had reversals and to your new nephew mumof5....
Talk soon.
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mummy25.......don't let it get you down......give him some space and time to think and he will eventually come around to your way of thinking......i know it pi$$es you off that he won't commit to having another baby, but don;t let your dream of having another baby go down the tubes either....maybe you both need to sit down over a cuppa, no kids around and calmly talk things through and let him know how you feel, and and how having another baby will effect both of you......things will work out, but maybe they just need time....cheers kiya
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Oh men you cant live with them and you cant live without them.
They are a breed all of there own thats for sure and im not about to understand them.
Like you said you have 5 kids to deal with so having him on top of all that isnt easy.
My DF and i have had some very tough time too and i wonder why i stay sometimes but its just easier that way,my kids have had too many ups and downs.
I do also wonder why i left my ex husband because he was a wonderful man and husband and father but he was never home cause he worked away and his job was there before me and the kids so who am i to make him throw it away.
Dont throw away what your heart really wants nor throw away your dreams for no one. Set it free and if it comes back to you then it was meant to be.
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Oh hugs first,
Okay My hubby and I went through the exact same thing, I said to him that I do not want to resent him for not having another baby but on the other hand I did not want him to resent me for forcing him. I had to sit down and listen to his points all were valid. But he had to listen to mine
He was concerned about my health both in pregnancy and after coping with 4 as he leaves the house at 6am and doesn't get home till 7pm, that I could understand. He was concerned with the point that if I had to go to hospital to have my shunt fixed up how he would cope with 4 and the money with him not working as recovery from that takes up to 6 weeks. What I am getting at is that you need to talk calmly and not get up and yell and call each other names (I do that) There were others but they were the major ones.
Maybe taking some time to not discuss it say 1 month it is totally off the agenda and see how things go. That is why we have decided that we need to discuss this with a neuro-surgeon and see what her opinion is, if she tells me that I don't think it is possible well i have to accept that and move on yes it will be hard but I will just have to do it.
How are you going to re-act if he still says no? Maybe tell this to him, if you haven't already. I know it is hard you are having all these baby feelings and hubby won't come to the party, it is not as easy as just forgetting about it.
Mumof5 , yuk castor oil you are very game. i did, the expressing milk, sex curries, walking my butt off. The last one worked.
Kiya I hope your results are what you wanted, you are in my thoughts.
Karend, glad thngs are happening and keep us updated.
onemore, good luck with the TTC.
As for me well went to the doctor today, Got all of my results in, my insulion resistance has not improved so more metformin for me, They cysts in my ovaries have changed to multi follicle??? but the hormones in my bloods are going crazy so even more metformin for me How fun????????
She has been discussing my condition with another doctor and they have said that IVF is a possiblity, and she also told me that a local ob/gyn does tubal reversals but does not advertise the fact so here's to hoping. She didn't do my pap smear as my cervix is a bit tender and she wants to wait till after my next period to do it, I have to keep up the exercise, lose more weight, and take multi-vits. I swear I am going to rattle when I walk!!!!
Roll on may when I have me definate answers, hubby is still leaning towards the tubal reversal as he feels that we can let nature take it's course with a little help from clomid.
Hugs to all.
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