Tubal Reversals #15

[storm]

it took me 12 months to fall with Zaccie, actually to the day of the op lol, funny coincidence then I fell again srtaight away with Angel, but have been trying for 11 months now kind of doing my head in this time, I'm not getting any younger !!!

Haha as for being here, I hate it it is hell, such a crappy dog ass hilly billy **** hole lol, house is going great I wish we could take it back to civilization. We are going to be moving in a few more weeks, way earlier than planned thank the heavens cos seriously, I would go mad if I had to stay here it is a disgusting poor excuse of a town! The mining is going good though DH will be coming back to mine & I will be staying in our new place, where they have power & running water & this stuff ,called grass LMAO I cant wait.

[dearmum]

Hi Ladies,
Im new to this site so i hope you dont mind me asking a few questions?
Please let me tell you my story i have had 4 kids and been married for 20yrs but after my last child i had a tubal ligation done as my Doc told me he will put a clip on it and when i wont more kids just come in and take it of haha not as easy as that.Anyway so now my kids are all teenagers i feel clucky again,so iv had to think what should i do go with tubal ligation reversal or IVF,well im now on my first try of IVF hoping it will work straight away.My questions are has anyone had a tubal reversal?if so how painfull was it?Did you get pregnant?how long did it take to fall pregnant?would love to chat.


ME 36 DH54
DS19 DD17 DS16 DD11
First time trying IVF

[storm]

Hi Dearmum welcome!!
I had a TR a while ago now & have had 2 babes since, it took us 12 months to get my first TR babe & only 1 try for the 2nd, so far 11 months for this one. I will say that yes the op is painful however I had a haematoma form so that made mine a bit worse. We had to decide between the TR & IVF we chose the tr so we could have more if we wanted.
I wish you all the very best with you IVF!!

[dearmum]

Thanks Jo its so good to hear you have had success with your reversal.Is there many other ladies that you know have had success??Deciding IVf was so hard for me as i had booked up both my reversal Doc and IVF Doc at the same Month and had to nail it down really quick,at first i wanted to do a reversal because i also want more than one more but then i got scared about being cut ect and a etopic pregnancy and one Doc told me go straight to IVF its less wait, but even today i still think gosh i could be pregnant by now if i had done reversal hmm i think il give it one shot at IVF and if it dosnt work il go and get the reversal done.If you dont mind me asking how old were you when you had your reversal?also how long did you have your tube clipped?did the doctors seem positive after your op?sorry for the questions

[storm]

I dont mind, ask away.
I had my clips on for 7 years I think I was 32 when I had the op,& the doc was very positive for me he said everything went back together nicely.
Maz has had 2 babies after her reversal, but I'm not sure on anybody else, I haven't been around much lately.
The risk of etopic pregnancy was very scary but we got over it. We were offered IVF as well, but decided for the TR as I was having bad AF symptoms & the TR fixed that as well.

How far along into your IVF are you?

[onemore]

Hi ladies, welcome dearmum... I had TR in June 06 and fell pg in Sep 07, unfortunately I lost that little angel at 9 weeks. It was all very traumatic but on the up side we know we can get pg again. Another lady that lives near me had the reversal in Dec last year and I`ve recently heard she is expecting, so there are a few out there with great outcomes.
Wishing you all the best on your journey and that it doesnt take too long once you begin.
Storm sorry your not enjoying your new town, I`ve forgoten where it is you are but we have been to some pretty crapy outback towns so I have a bit of an idea what you mean (never lived there though) good that your heading back soon, maybe then things will settle down and you can get that BFP. Perhaps a new little one just doesnt want to be conceived in such a crapy dog ass hilly billy ****hole of a town...(ROFLOL that was great terminoligy spelling ?)
Talk to all you lovely ladies soon

[dearmum]

Thanks Storm & Onemore
Well you know iv always regreted doing the tubal ligation i think the Doctor shouldnt of said anything about it i was still young and if i wanted something for protecting myself i would have asked hmm my bloods starting to boil thinking about it.Well anyway im on my third week of IVF at first i was worried about the drugs ect but now its like nothing iv had no side affects just cruising along,tomorro i go for my U/S to check how many follies i have and maybe on tuesday i go in and have them taken out yuck!I have my hopes up high that it works even though i know it can take a few times.My youngest daughter and i we always look at the baby section at the shops and choose what we want i have to stop myself from buying thingsSo i thought i had a big family but you guys have more kids than meso how many do you guys want?i was thinking i want another 2 but dont care if its boys are girls coz iv got both atm they are the same at the end of the day.Well enjoy your night take care