dearmum......we are the same.....i have however conceived twins naturally before twice, so i have more of a chance of having them...which is good for us because even dh wants twins......but i will be very happy just to have 1 baby :-)......we also won't have a problem with accommodation down there as dh comes from NSW and he still has family down there and my sister lives down there as well.....so that will be taken care of......now just have to get everything together and head on down there.....wish you the best of luck and can't wait to hear about your IVF/Baby journey.....cheers kiya