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  1. #1
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    Jun 2007
    Chudleigh, Tasmania
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    Oh Dearmum, so so sorry for the loss of your little boy. I can only imagine what you and your family are going through.
    I just finished reading another thread from belly budies for Feb and one of the ladies there has just also lost her little boy at 20 weeks, his kidneys etc had not developed properly therefor not producing amniotic fluid and she had to be induced.
    Why this happens I will never understand, it is just not fair. Then I come in here and the news just gets worse. I cant stop crying Take all the time you need and please look after yourselves.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    223

    Dearmum, i have you in my thoughts and prayers. i hope that lots of support comes your way. some things are so difficult in life.
    i too am having to put off this cycle. I am having another ectopic pregnancy. i just don't want to go through surgery.
    hope everyone else is doing okay.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    The Dirt Patch, Qld
    375

    OMG!!...Ladies, my heart goes out to both of you in this sad time....Wish you both a full recovery....I wish i could be there for both of you and put my arms around both of you and comfort you both......Take care and take your time with the healing process....Nikki (aka kiya)

  4. #4
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    May 2008
    203

    So sorry Luvchildren to hear your bad news alsoi cant believe the amount of bad luck everyone is having,i swear this year has been the worst year of my life.Just bad news after bad news.
    Ladies my heart is aching for another baby,i was my happiest while i was pregnant.
    I dont know how quick i can try again but i need to as i cant imagine going on in life without trying again.
    Its so hard being home as everything reminds me of being pregnant

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    Brisbane
    1,422

    Dearmum,
    I could only imagine how hard it would have been having to give birth to your son name him then bury him, your a very strong lady. When i lost my bub at 8 weeks that was the sadest thing i myself had to deal with. So you lossing your bub at 20weeks must break your heart big time. I know you can never replace hime but having another baby may fill the hole in your heart. Personally i think i would do the same thing as i think it would make the healing process alot easier but everyone is different.
    Give your clinic a call and see what they say it can't hurt to ask.
    Take good care of yourself.XXXX

    Hey Luv hows things going

  6. #6
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    Nov 2006
    223

    dearmum, it probably wouldn't hurt to give them a ring. I know what you mean about pregnant thing. what has happened to me is no where near the pain you must have felt. i hope things look up for you real soon.
    well just to let you all know, my bloods are dropping so i don't need surgery- which is a good thing. this means though that ivf will be put off for a while.. I guess that things all have their time. Hope everyone else is doing okay. Sorry for the glummness.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    The Dirt Patch, Qld
    375

    on a happier note....i just got off the phone with Monash IVF up here in Qld, and i have an appointment with them on Mon 27th Oct......i'm a little excited actually, but also very scared at the same time.....We were going to go with Westmead, but since Monash IVF also have a clinic 25 mins away from me in Ipswich, they are also able to to treat the endometriosis at the same time of IVF....it's going to cost a lot more, but i will have a higher success rate with them....we could be looking at beginning treatment by the end of the year and if not then, the beginning of next year.....Hope all you wonderful ladies are doing well....Luv, it is good to hear that the bloods are going down and you wont need surgery....I'm so sorry your IVF has been put on hold...I totally know what that is like....Dearmum, i agree it wouldn't hurt to call them and get their advice on how soon you can start again, and hopefully we will be hearing you cheering in the halls with babynews :-)......cheers kiya

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