Dee,

I'm really sorry to hear of your loss.

After my m/c I had a few days at home to get over the m/c and d&c. I had a lot of trouble returning to work and although I knew the people at work who matter to me were really supportive, I still had a fear of going and being made to feel a failure (even though I logically knew there was nothing I could have done to prevent it). I spent two days at work and then a few more at home as I just wasn't ready to be back and 'acting normal' and would cry at nothing.

I hope you feel better soon.