Hi Dee

i just wanted to say i can relate so much i lost my daughter on the 16th of july 2006 at 23wks and since then i am a nervous wreck i would go to bed and sit awake thinking someone was gonna break into my house and hurt me and my family or i would hear a plane fly over the house and keep thinking it was gonna crach into my house i would make my hubby get up in the night to check the house to make sure no one was there and to check that the doors were def locked after a yr i got so fed up of feeling on edge all the time and constantly worrying about everything i would worry if my mum was to take my son out i would think what if he gets hurt or what if she looses him so i finally went to docs and he said he thought i should see a consellor and i muct say it has helped alot i used to get the fears everyday and now its more like once a fortnight or when i am on my period which i think is a hormone thing. but i just wanted to say it is normal i was told that when something really upsetting or trumatic happens your worst fears can come out like i have probably always feared someone breaking in my house but not to the extent that made me belive there were people actually in my house hope that makes sence take care of yourself hope i helped a little.

Munchy xxx