Hi, first of all it was so bizarre to read those old posts!!! You, Spring and Rowie have all fullfilled your dreams of bringing another baby into this world.. its beautiful to read your posts of hopes knowing they came true!!
I think the bassinette holds HUGE emotional memories for you, and it will ALWAYS remind you of your lost angel... who you will always remember and love whether you have the bassinette or not.
Its a tough decision to make, and only you can decide what to do, i think if there is somewhere for it to sit and not be in the way or any trouble, there is no reason not to keep it, maybe for your Grandchildren to use!!!! If it upsets you too much to get rid of it, then dont, you have been upset enough and if keeping a bassinette makes you feel better or at least like you have something to remind you of your angel, then hold onto that i think.
If however you find it might be theoropudic(spelling??!!) to let it go, maybe thats what you need to do, i would weigh up whether it upset me more having it around to have too see it and think about or if i would be MORE upset with it gone forever. Or maybe like Spring said in one of the old posts... can a family member or a friend store it somehwere,(not your parents if your dad still gets upset), or even if you are just up for lending it to people you know who might want to use it...
Its a hard decision to make, IMO i would keep it, but thats just me
Take care, Big Hugs
StarBrightxoxoxo
Whatever you decide, take your time and dont rush a decision!!
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