Janeo,
I am so sorry for your loss, but you are not alone. I also had a missed miscarriage this past October. I went in for my first ultrasound at 9 weeks only to be told the baby did not have a hearbeat. the baby measured at 9 weeks so it was as if this just happened. I had no signs no cramping or bleeding... I was shocked to say the least. I opted to take the natural route and it was a long agonizing 2 weeks before my baby passed on October 26th, but i am glad I waited because i just didn't feel comfortable with D&C. It has been 8 weeks since my miscarriage and i am still bleeding lightly..My OB said it is due to me just shedding the uterine lining very slowly and did a cleaning procedure in the office along with 10 days of Provera to help. Hopefully this will get things back on track for me as everyday that i see this light flow is a constant reminder and makes it hard to try to move on. I wish you the best for the future. I know that this is a very hard time for you because it has been the hardest thing i have ever been through in my life but time will make you stronger.