Goldi- my simple words cannot express the heartache I feel for you.All the wonderful ladies here echo my thoughts and feelings.I am so srry for your loss.

Your post is beautiful and so moving.To the little one you had but never to hold in your arms only in your heart.

I too lost a precious baby and the heartache remains deep after 22 months and returning to the place of her birth this last week with our newborn sons has been hard.

The ultrasound will be etched in your mind (i too found out by ultrasound) and every other u/s I had during my recent pg I feared the worse.

Be gentle with yourselves, grieve and cry as much as you need to. I know there is NOTHING I could possible say to ease your pain.

Draw on your great personal strength as you continue this journey.
with hope
Trish