Ellie,

I'm so very very sorry that you've lost another precious bub. Don't you dare let anyone tell you that you can't grieve...a baby is a baby at ANY stage and you need to grieve for your loss.

Your story brought back all the pain of my own missed m/s last year. I had a D&C as I was almost 13w as my body was never going to miscarry naturally. In a way, it helped to get things 'over and done with' quickly, then I could start to grieving process. There's no way you should have to wait 4 weeks for things to happen naturally.

I'm so happy to hear that you have your wonderful DH for support. He'll try and be strong and put on a brave face for you, but it's very important for him to grieve...he has lost a baby too.

I truly hope that you can get some answers as to why this keeps happening to you, sweetheart. Please take care of yourself and your DH :hugs:

Love & hugs
Belle
-xxxooo-