Nadia you are in no way pathetic for what you are feeling.

I think if your Dr is supportive of the fact that you have a chance of carrying another baby then the decision really comes down to you & your husband & nobody else.

I'm kind of in a similar situation after having 2 late losses (18w5d & 20w) & while I respect that others have their opinions on whether we should try again or be grateful for the one we have, I think that ultimately the decision comes down to myself & my husband. After all it is us who is affected the most whichever way the outcome goes (we are yet to have our followup appt with the OB since our last loss which will have loads of questions for them in regards to trying again) but I know in my heart if I don't have one more go I will regret it for the rest of my life.

More importantly don't rush into making a decision now, you need time to sit down & talk about it with your DH & work out what is best for the two of you & nobody else.

Wishing you every success no matter what choice you make.

Big hugs to you