Sarah - what your mum said is so true. If people do forget our angels, then we forget about them. Thank you for sharing with me how you are feeling, I really appreciate it. I hope that your TTC journey is short and sweet. If you want, please come over to the TTC after late loss. The girls there are wonderful and have been a pillar of strength for me.

Lynnette - I think betrayed is the right word. It is exactly how I feel. I spoke with my sister on Saturday about how I was feeling but she didn't really seem to care. She just said that I can't tell her what to do. While that is true, I just thought the timing of it all is wrong. But what can I do. I know that unless you are in this position then there is no way that you could understand, but I would have thought that my own sister would have had a little bit more sensitivity. Thank you for your words, I appreciate them.

Smiley - I am so sorry to hear about Noah and congratulations on your pregnancy. Cooper's due date was 19 December. I am so sorry to hear that you struggled to fall pregnant and then only to lose the miracle that you were carrying. It is heartbreaking isn't it? We definately know that it was cord accident as we saw the cord around Cooper's neck when he was born. I totally agree about talking about our babies. For me the most important thing is acknowledgement of Cooper as he was born and he is my son. Maybe that is why I am taking my sister's pg difficult but it feels like she hasn't and doesn't acknowledge Cooper because he is no longer here. I think there is nothing strange about including Noah on the birth notice of your next child. He is your son and should be included as a brother. Yes I am on the painful TTC journey again and again it is a struggle. Things are not going to plan so far so it is another thing to stress and worry over. I am wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy and would love to hear when you have that screaming, pooing baby in your arms.

Thanks girls for all your posts. I really do appreciate it. Take care & best wishes

luv & hugs
Lynn