thread: Ultimate Insensitivity Rant - Lets See Who Can Top This One!

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  1. #1
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    Dec 2007
    New York
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    oh yes and I almost forgot two weeks ago my mom said, "not that I minded having to do it, but becasue of your miscarriage I did have to rewrite half of my christmas cards." so sorry that I inconvenienced you, i will try not to next time.

  2. #2
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    Oct 2006
    home sweet home.
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    I can't even write what I want to say because it will be bleeped out. You have every right to be steaming mad. Boy, I'm surprised your mother had the audacity to do such an aweful thing. You need some huge hugs :hugs:

    I can't believe you have had to go through this and I am very sorry that your own Mum has upset you so much. Be as angry as you want but know that she was wrong to do it but that some things just don't deserve your heartache.

    Take care
    Lv Spring

  3. #3
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    Feb 2008
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    oh yes and I almost forgot two weeks ago my mom said, "not that I minded having to do it, but becasue of your miscarriage I did have to rewrite half of my christmas cards." so sorry that I inconvenienced you, i will try not to next time.

    bloody hell. i'm surprised you didn't *****-slap her. i probably would have...

    my DD screamed as she left home after telling her father i was pregnant (i divorced him four years ago after he bullied me into a termination) that she hoped i'd miscarry...and apparently i have no parenting skills either.

    my sis said, "oh i thought your body was too old to support another pregnancy" (hey guys, i raced bmx to state titles level only two years ago, and i'm a massage therapist !) and "well it's not as if you'd bought maternity clothes yet..."

    i just had to shut up and say nothing. my pram/cot/maternity gear i ordered off ebay arrived the day after my m/c.

    my best friend? "you're too old, karan, let's face it."

    and the list goes on. and on.

    i'm 43, dammit, in the prime of life, fit, healthy, and have bigger biceps than most men i know!!!

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