Oh darlin, I no how you are feeling, as both my babies were 35weeks and both not aloud in with me and I to had to look at them through those horrible things too.
My heart broke each time id see her, then him turn over or stuggle or even cry,it broke me in two.

But in the end I tried to remember that it was the closest thing that sheand then he had to still being inside and then that kinda made me feel a bit better.

Don't forget that the midwives deal with this every day and they do understand, so talk to them and maybe get a little reasurance.

Can you touch her through the issolete, and hold her hands, tell her you love her and will hold her soon-believe me she knows your there.

Take care angel.xxxx 4 u