I'll try the fenugreek, where do u get it from?? MIL has been great, she takes me in to the hospital a couple of times a week, while dh is at work, and Anneliese is at the Royal Womens in Melbourne, and they have a child care centre, but its for a maximum of like 2 hours. But my FIL worked for the week (and did nights, he's a snr sargent for vic police and had to co-ordinate the police for Federation Square, so he's either working or asleep, and i can understand that when hegets a couple of days off they want to spend some time together!!) They said they might be able to lend me their second car tomorrow, so i can at least get out of the house, and im going to get DH to look after the kids so i can go in and spend all night, until the wee hours of morning with her. Breastfeed for a couple of feeds, loads of cuddles... cross my fingers this plan works out!!