I had my heart set on the Graco Quatro Tour Delux until I saw it in person and realised just how big and heavy it was I agree it would be bulky to get in and out of the car. I ended up going for the Steelcraft Acclaim reverse handle for a few reasons one it was lite and easy to fold down (one hand one foot) and the handle reversed so I could see bubby when he/she's newborn and change direction when bubby is older, it also has 4 wheels which Is just a personal preference for me and the wheels are lockable both back and front so they don't wobble when your in the shops.

I feel your pain it took me months to decide and I got so overwhelmed with the choices. It might be hard since it's your first but if you can think of what you will be using your pram mostly for ie walking in the park, jogging, shopping etc then you might have an idea of what's important. For me jogging wasn't on my list so the 3 wheeler joggers were out and I'm only a small person (5ft) so I really wanted something lite and easy to push not too high plus it will be me pushing the pram most of the time so getting something that dh liked and I didn't wasn't a good idea either.

Good luck, try checking out the pram review sites too if you search for nurseryworld they have a huge list of prams with detailed descriptions.