we put Isaac in his own room with no problems. in a cradle, we had an angel care monitor. he is an awsome sleeper.

Our bedroom is grown up space. a place for love and romance etc... i think our children take up 95% of our lives and we give it to them with joy; but that last 5% still needs to belong to our relationships, husbands, partners, etc.
I know so many people who's relationships suffer from having baby in their room at night. A private grown up space is so important.