ok so how do i put this...........How do you have pashionate (sp?) sex with baby in the room? sorry for TMI.. I know your in the clear for the first 6-8 weeks but what about after that. I would be so worried about waking baby up. or even a toddler; like some people have in their room/bed. A GF i have known for years told me it can be weeks between sex because her DS sleeps in their bed. it affects her relationship with DF.

I still think mum and dad's bedroom should be a private escape.
don't get me wrong Isaac comes into out bed but only after 6am for a morning cuddle.

who says you only have to have sex in your bed and at night?
believe me, there are plenty of ways/places/times to work around it.