Parenting after Loss or Miscarriage Jan/Feb 2011

[LisaL]

Hellooo lovelies,

Spring - thinking of you today hun, stay safe my sweet lady xxx

Freya - whoo hoo hooo hooo hooo!! Thats awesome news hun xx I hope you can make it to Syd meet up - Id love to rub your belly

Michelle - hope you survived 1st preschool day and hope O was okay

BW: Thinking of you today too

Jayne - Im so sorry for your loss, and hope your mum and sis are doing ok. to you too.

Sorry ran out of ime for more persies, but Ill BBL (kids are off to care today so I'll have time). Went and had the BT done on Monday - yesterday morning before I could get the results - AF hit with a vengeance. Its so heavy and painful. Im convinced its a m/c but BT results came back negative. So maybe it was an off cycle, I dont know. While Im relieved, I can honestly say that number 3 is not out of the question anymore. There was a little hope there for a while, you know the daydreaming of what this baby would have been like etc etc.. so I know that I will probably go down the ttc road again but maybe in a couple of years.

love and light to all
Lis xx

[Janie]

Lisa, everything happens for a reason (I believe) I'm pleased to hear that you feel decided on your TTC path now . Sorry to hear AF is so awful, hope it settles down soon xo

[Willow]

Lisa - Am so glad you posted, came in this morning to check up on you. I'm with Janie - I think this has all happened for a reason and sometimes it takes something like this to help you make decisions you thought you'd already made! I get the relief too, I swing from desperately wanting #4 to being quite happy to never have to do the pregnancy/newborn thing again. I'm with Kelly, I don't do newborns well (although D was a dream as a newborn) and her post the other day about sleep and routines made me shudder! LOL No offence Kelly!! I guess having survived it three times now though, I know it's only a very short time that things are that intense and the long term rewards are more than worth it.

Mako - No drama getting L to bed last night

Lee - The photos look beautiful! How do the kids feel about boarding school? If they're happy, it might work for everyone?

[BekZ]

Lisa - Am so glad you posted, came in this morning to check up on you. I'm with Janie - I think this has all happened for a reason and sometimes it takes something like this to help you make decisions you thought you'd already made! I get the relief too, I swing from desperately wanting #4 to being quite happy to never have to do the pregnancy/newborn thing again. I'm with Kelly, I don't do newborns well (although D was a dream as a newborn) and her post the other day about sleep and routines made me shudder! LOL No offence Kelly!! I guess having survived it three times now though, I know it's only a very short time that things are that intense and the long term rewards are more than worth it.

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Mako - You are so sweet. I hope your DH gets better soon. You know I still have to lie with Sara most nights and sing her my goodnight song and she is 5

Lisa - Yukky AF. I get those longer cycles at times and they are nasty. Rest up if you can. Glad to hear you've got the clucky bug

Lee - wow. That hotel looks devine. Can't wait to meet you either. Have fun in Sydney

Spring - Please stay safe hun

BW - All the best for today.

How are all our little schoolies and kindy kiddies going?

Best go and do some home work. I have a heap of online exams to do

Luv xxoo

[Janie]

DS1 starts kinder on Friday, I am soooo excited for him! What are your exams Bek?

[Willow]

Man, I am worried sick for Spring and the boys.

Stay safe babe xxxx

[Spring Angel]

Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers. The wind and rain is picking up already. I feel literally sick with worry but ready to face this *****.
I will endevour to contact you all once the immediate danger passes.

[mako]

Stay safe Spring and what an awesome mummy you are for telling Ollie about the "rain party". I really hope you guys don't need to use the "cubby" either. I'll be thinking of you all night as I have been all day

[LisaL]

Can you guys count me in on that text - she just posted on FB - if you hear from her after the storm, please txt me - anytime. I just feel sick.

Spring - you amaze me, stay safe beautiful lady, will be sending light and love to your home.

Lighting my candle for you now xx