Oh CRAP Lisa! Don't back down sweets, I totally agree with you. I hope DH relents soon, so that you can relax again FWIW, and you can share this with him, I have three step-sisters........the first one got her mum's name as her middle name, but the others didn't get a middle name at all! The other two have always resented that. Seriously, especially the middle one. It's no big deal, they don't go on about it, but it has been an issue.