Sometimes I think the grass always looks just that little bit greener on the other side of the fence kwim? You've made some big changes to your life that is putting the focus on you a little bit more than it has been for the past few years and you find yourself re-evaluating things or wishing they were different altogether. Especially when you have, to be perfectly honest with you, a jackass of a husband putting **** on you that you just don't need. I think that he is a large part of the reason why you are feeling this way because you are doing the absolute best that you can juggling your boys, study and your home (trust me, I know what that's like too!) and then he comes home and says stuff like that to you? It's no wonder that the single kid free uni life has become so appealing But one thing I do know that it gets immensely easier once your kids get to a certain age and they are more children than babies.

And really, if he doesn't want the boys to touch his xbox, then put the bloody thing away where they can't get it - you don't own it so it's not your problem.

So now you have gotten it all out, what do you feel you really need?