Thanks so much everyone for your responses! I really appreciate the support!

The thing is, she sleeps really well at night. 6 hr stretches even. I feed her to sleep at night, but was trying to stop it in the day because some "professional" told me to...

The battle of instinct v professional is seriously screwed...I can't believe I fell for it.

Thank you again for your wise words and loving hugs...I feel so much more supported in my decision now!