Ah yes... with regarding clothing: my mother never let us have any say in what my sister and i wore. She sewed most things herself. All i ever wanted as a child was a plain pair of denim jeans but mum never listened... i had to wear her dresses and skirts (all of which would have looked very cute to me with my adult perspective but at the time i wanted to just fit in with the other kids!). So i have also probably spent too much $ making sure my kids always have something to wear that THEY want to wear.
Yep I totally relate to this, except in my case my mother didn't even sew (my Nanna did what she could up until we moved interstate) so I actually spent a large portion of my childhood with a scandalous lack of even the most basic clothing...so I've probably overcompensated in terms of clothing quantity - even if my DD is oblivious and repeatedly wears the same 2 things over and over and over again .

Other big thing my mother repeatedly failed to provide was *any* kind of quality time...us kids were expected to entertain ourselves with virtually no resources - so big on my priority is organising family activities, whether it's games nights, outings to parks & events etc on the weekend, or just hanging out together - ok so it's not all the time but certainly pretty regularly.