i have a DD , G . she is trouble .... massive amounts of my energy go into stopping her from being destructive. Now i know 2 year old are messy , loud , energetic , i know , ive had one ( DS who is 4.5) but this is different ... i gave DD a custard , ... she didnt want it so she painted my new canvas picture with it ...... DH gave her breakfast .... the milk was too hot so she threw it in the mop bucket ..... dinner HAS to be COLD .... not HOT and she will chuck a tanty over anything .... esp if i cant find her undies with the doggies on them .... .. she tips flour everywhere . draws on walls . ASKS if she can break things ... and when i say no and explain why , by the time im done saying no , she has broken it !!

she had no fear of water and spends hours jumping head first into the pool , runs and runs .... if shes not got my FULL attention she is being naughty somewhere , like squeezing out the toothpaste and rubbing it in to the floor or tipping her milk into the cup holders of our lounge ..... she climbs the shelves in my pantry until she finds what she wants ( mostly lollies ) and screams and scratches when i say no .... she simply refuses to have a blanket on even in winter and has an almighty tanty through out the night if i have snuck in and put a blanket over her ...

and most days will not wear any clothes at all .... even at kindy her teacher finds her doing a nudie run .

she is soooo advanced for her age in many things and sometimes is just too much for me . i feel guilty that i admit that . she is just too much , the other night after picking up ALL my tupperware she spread around the house , i said to her " i cant wait till you are in kindy tomorrow"
she didnt hear me or seem to notice id said that but i felt so mean ...

i love her to bits but shes too full on . .... is it me being a lazy parent ... or is it her ...sometimes her behavior is embarrssing when we are visiting , as people tend to think shes a spoiled brat . but shes not ... shes just ..... well i dont know what she is ... do u think her behaoiver is normal ? or am i over worrying about nothing ....

arrrgh some days i cant cope with her full on ness .... and i dont know what to do