If you're selfish than so am I.

I don't want another baby because:

It takes a lot of pain (emotionally) and possibly MC's to get pregnant. (but if I really wanted another I know this wouldn't be a problem)
I have raised two babies and I like the idea that they are getting more and more dependent each day, which means I am becoming more and more my own person again.
I want to work so we have more money, so my kids can enjoy life more too and I don't want to rely on daycare if I don't have to.
I am excited about the idea of having no kids at home next year
I wanted to have children young so I would be a young mum, and I am still and like the idea that I'll be 43 when my last baby finishes high school. It also means DH and I will be able to still enjoy travelling etc when our kids leave home iykwim?


Now I am lucky enough to have this list, and had I not had any babies I know this list wouldn't mean diddly squat because the wanting of those babies would be more than these issues. But because I was blessed (even with the heartache of loss and LTTTC) means that these issues apply to me now and they are valid reasons for ME. You need to do what is right for you, not compare yourself to others because it is your life iykwim?