I suppose the real question is - do you think your reasons are unacceptably selfish, or do you think you would resent the baby for missing out/posponing these things?
Urghh I don't know.

Black_Rose - I already have 3 kids to chase after ETA: And we already have a 7 seater car

Maybe its cos 3 under 3 was really easy for me... LOL.. maybe I live on stress or something and now that I hardly have any, it feels like something is missing.. lol

Rowellen - I know that I would love another little boy, would really really love another little boy.. but that can't be guaranteed either.. lol