Arimeh you're a hoot, thanks for a giggle in your post hehehe I think all of the things you listed are reasonable dh and I orignially wanted 4 bubs and we've named them all etc. But now we are a little more realistic. We are having this one and are totally ttc #2 asap! But after that we will have a look at how we are going. First thing on my list will be our health (the whole family) both physical and emotional and if for ANY reason there is a problem including weight (as you mentioned) than we wont have another bub until any health issues are resolved. Next on our list would be time and finances, if we don't have time to offer the family unit or the finances to support us all then we would also stop at 2 kids. Our house is big enough to fit the 4 kids we wanted but if it wasn't and we couldn't afford a larger place and it was an issue then that would also stop us having a 3rd let alone the 4th.