What fantastic advice, I think Ireally need to be organised with responses/replies to questions. I have gone through loads of different scenarios in my head, which has been helpfull,but I think I might start writing them down so I dont go ga-ga-blank-der-ummm when confronted in conversation.
Janno 27 it was so therapeutic to hear you and IK call him norty names. I really loved that. He was a fool and I so hope this other father doesn't turn into such a monster - but it's really hard to imagine someone being MORE caunty than the last one, having had that experience I think I'll be much better prepared. That and me and this fella have no real previous 'relationship'. I'll be reading your replies for focus and encouragment over the next few days, I have a little time off work (3 days) which is time emough to work out some strategies.
I am finding this so helpful because I am usually so emotional and broken when I finally ask for help from my sister, that when I am consulting her I am usually in desperation and not in the mood to take controll of the situation, I am usually just wanting to shrivell from life and be a puddle of snot in her arms. This way I am at home in private, if things get me a bit emotional I can get up and do the washing and come back later.
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