Hi Crystalilly,

It's so easy to give advice but so difficult to act on it in this situation. Unfortunately I had kept everything inside when I lost the twins, I didn't understand that I had the right to grieve so I would do it in secret the shower or car. This then affected me in my next pregnancy, I held back from bonding with my bump, I was terrified to feel.
And now I have guilt about that, it's silly I know, my daughter is now seven and here I am bawling about it like it was yesterday. I feel like I let her down.
I was probably five months pregnant before I talked to my belly or gave baby a nickname.
I don't want that for you because when everything works out fine for you I don't want you to have worried all the way through and not enjoy the magic of being pregnant.
Smile for baby, talk to baby, plan for baby, baby deserves it. Many women bleed during early pregnancy, just take it as a sign that you have to be good to yourself and take everything one step at a time.
Let me know how your doing, and take care.