snowy, i wasnt attrmpting to be insensitive at all, i didt even read past the the first bit so i didnt even know about your friend, yes I should of read the whole thing first I'm very sorry i didnt.

all i was trying to say is that everyone can have different experiences dependign on where they go, in my mind all of england is bad as i cant stand the place and its thanks to that country that i lost my son, which writing that brings me to tears as i fully regret going there if i didnt id still have him here with me..

:hugs: about your friend but as i have tears rolling down my cheeks due to upsetting you and thinking about how much i miss my son im going to end this post now

Lesley