Yep, what mummytummy said! Only she said it way better than me because I would have used many expletives. But yes, it has to be the debriefing.....

Dp was at the bus stop the other week (outside a Drs office), one lady was preg and there was another sitting there raving on about how horrible.....well you know the story. Dp got quite annoyed, told the stupid woman off and then told the close to tears preg woman how wonderful the birth of our kids were, how much he respected my choices and the elation we all felt. I'm pretty sure he gave her BB's address and told her to come on in!

I was so proud of him, she cheered up no end.

I wish someone would have hassled me like that - I seem to have a "don'tmesswithme face" very dissapointing.