Hi,

Well DH and I are planning on having 4kids and many people think I'm crazy for wanting that, on an emotional level I don't get why anyone would only want 1 child or only 2 but thats only because i so want a big family.

I think its like how u know when u want to have kids if you have to give logic reasons you could but YOU JUST KNOW I think it's the same with how many kids you want to have...you just want that because you want that iykwim

Don't worry what others say like you said you may change you mind...I might to but maybe not also. I think anyone who wants anything other than 2 or 3 kids these days is questioned as to why