Normally, I consider everyone else's feelings before my own... so I'd normally give in. I'm just so over it all now. I consider that my mother's menopausal and my sister has her own issues with pregnancy, but to be fair I'm eight months gone and am allowed some irrationality! I am the one who needs support now, I shouldn't still feel like I have to look after them (I had to take on the mothering role with my mother when I was a teenager, now she's trying to revert back and control me, which I don't appreciate; I could have done with some looking after myself, not having to look after her).

Normally I, like you, would just give in to resolve things. But if they can't respect me for two seconds (even changing their going away dates so after arranging the Christening around them they now can't attend, can I change it?) then why should I concern myself with their feelings?

I'm still upset at them, so I'll chill down again and give in at a later date, but to be frank the bullying my dad tried to do as well as my mum and sister being moody just got to me a bit more than usual this time.

I've told them that I'm going to take WHO advice over their own advice re: BFing, and was told off... so I ignore them now. As for my looks, well, to be fair, my parents did sit me down and offer me cosmetic surgery when I was younger, so it's not like they've not tried to do their best for me.