Michelle - i'm so sorry hun :hugs:
I have not been through this myself but attended one with a family friend as her DH couldn't make it. She was an absolute wreck and had to decide within a few hrs after her u/s revealed problems with the baby and they needed more info. She decided to go through with it and fortunately all worked out really well. Her DS is now 7 and doing great! I wish u all the best and will keep u and ur precious bub in my thoughts and prayers!