Back from the hospital i still have no idea what the best thing to do is.
The odds are 1:200 risk of m/c if we have the amnio or a 1:294 risk of having a down syndrome baby. My risk factor had gone up from 1:239 so it's looking good to me. But it's also up to DH. I have to go back next week to see them if we want to go ahead with the amnio if not we don't see them again until 20wks.
At least we have a few more days to think about it again. I think DH is coming to my way of thinking now and not have the amnio done and just take the risk.