hi Everyone
Im glad i found this forum, it helped me a lot knowing i wasnt alone. i want to share my story.
I Lost my angel this feb 23wks+5days.
It all started when i started bleeding at 15 week. It was nothing major just some spots, i went to the emergency room, and they did all the usual tests and the doctors told me that i was just bleeding from my cervix. I was in hospital for a week, so the docotors could monitor me and after a week was sent home as the bleeding stopped.
a month later, i started bleeding again, only lasted a day, and the doctors again told me i was just bleeding from the cervix.
at 23 weeks, i started bleeding quiet heavily. unfortuanltey for me, my old doc has tranferred to another hospital and i was left with a new doctor, who just started at the hospital that day. they sent me home, after a check up, saying the baby's heartbeat is all good etc. i was bleeding more heavily and contionusly but i was so sick of the doct telling me that it was just my cervix and the baby was fine, i didnt go to the hospital again, after about a week of bleeding, one night i started getting some pains lower back, nothing on the tummy, the next day i went to my GP and he said its just muscle pains with everything strectcing, that night the pain got bad , for some reason i think i went to sleep and i woke up and went to the toilet, and i could see the umbelical cord. We went straight to the emergency room, and that was it, i could feel the baby kicking just an hour before, my water has broke but i didnt even notice from all the bleeding. It was heart breaking as he was so perfect and nothing looked wrong with him.
After all the test and post portem, they found out that the blood was coming from behind the placenta, to this day they dont know why, i also had an infection, i didnt get much answers from the doctors. all they said was next time they would monitor me closely. i just know when i decide to try again, ill be so scared. This forum has helped me a lot , just to know that other people go through smiliar stories. so thank you to all