Thanks girls, glad to hear it wasnt as bad u thought.
Tan im holding onto hope that my body remembers what to do because its done it before.
My labour stalled with DD2 and i was put onto the drip and went from 3cms to pushing in an hour and a half, so i think thats a good sign that we'll be ok.
Garrrgghh if only there was another way to get them out!!