Thanks Mel, obviously if it comes to it i'll do it, in the big scheme of things me having a section is 100 times less scary than what he's going to have to go through when he has his heart surgery.
i think the being reliant on someone during recovery is another issue i have, ive always been so indipendant and DF wont be able to take time off, if he doesnt work he doesnt get paid and we dont eat! lol so ill have mum here to help and thats an issue i have.

Mel- off note here but was C always measuring ahead at scans and things or was his growth something that happened in the last tri? i thought bub would be measuring atleast a little bigger but he's not