Very true angelicdragon! Even my DF is like that...he thinks I'm just being "paranoid"..no matter how many times I tell him I would just prefer not to take the risk of something happening that could have been prevented! Then goes on to tell me his mum smoked & drank throughout all 3 of her pregnancies yet all three kids "turned out fine"
Again, I have informed myself of the risks and simply prefer to cut those foods out of my diet for the time being, I can live without, and I would much rather a healthy baby at the end of it all, than sacrificing that chance for a slice of deli ham or a bit of cheese...