I will be having my mum (along with my DH) - but we have set some ground rules for her - ie DH is the primary support etc. when Blake is born - she can have a quick cuddle (after us) and then she will leave us alone as a family to bond etc.

I always wanted more than one support person, both DH's sisters have complained their DH's wore out too quickly and had to be roused on several occaisions LOL

In the end its your decision and like it or not your mum has to respect that.