Thanks Jo and Tracey. I wish it was a simple as just go for it. Maybe im just procastinating to much about it and shouldnt worry about my cycles and DTD as much as i can, Lol.

I think whats frustrateing is i truly believe we both really want another one but are to scared to say 'ok, lets go again', cause then the decision is done. Kwim.

Reading all your replies is good for me. I just wish DH would get on her and read them to instead of getting cranky that im on here.